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When I was in seventh grade, I was a candy striper at
a local hospital in my town. I volunteered
about thirty to forty hours a week during the summer. Most
of the time I
spent there was with Mr. Gillespie. He never had any visitors,
and nobody seemed to care about his condition. I spent many
days there holding his hand and talking to him, helping
with anything that needed to be done. He became a close
friend of mine, even though he responded
with only an occasional squeeze of my hand. Mr. Gillespie
was in a coma.
I left for a week to vacation with my parents, and when
I came back, Mr. Gillespie was gone. I didn't have
the nerve to ask any of the nurses where he was,
for fear they might tell me
he had died. So with many questions unanswered, I continued
to volunteer there through my eighth-grade year.
Several years later, when I was a junior in high school,
I was at the gas station when I noticed a familiar face.
When I realized who it was, my eyes filled with tears. He
was alive! I got up the nerve
to ask him if his name was Mr. Gillespie, and if he had
been in a coma about five years ago. With an uncertain look
on his face, he replied yes. I explained how I knew him,
and that I had spent many hours talking with him in the
hospital. His eyes welled up with
tears, and he gave me the warmest hug I had ever
received.
He began to tell me how, as he lay there comatose, he
could hear me talking to him
and could feel me holding his hand
the whole time. He thought it was an angel, not a
person, who was there with him. Mr. Gillespie firmly
believed that it was my voice and touch that had
kept him alive.
Then he told me about his life and what happened to him
to put him in the coma. We both cried for a while and exchanged
a hug, said our good-byes and went our separate
ways.
Although I haven't seen him since,
he fills my heart with joy every day. I know that I made
a difference between his life and his death. More important,
he has made a tremendous difference in my life. I will never
forget him and what he did for me: he
made me an angel.
By Angela Sturgill
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