| As Amy Hagadorn rounded the corner
across the hall from her classroom, she collided
with a tall boy from the fifth grade running in the
opposite direction.
"Watch it, Squirt," the boy yelled, as he dodged
around the little third grader. Then, with a smirk on his
face, the boy took hold of his right leg and mimicked the
way Amy limped when she walked.
Amy closed her eyes for a moment.
'Ignore him,' she told herself as she headed
for her classroom.
But at the end of the day, Amy was still thinking about
the tall boy's mean teasing. It wasn't as if he were the
only one. It seemed that ever since Amy started the third
grade, someone teased her every single day. Kids teased
her about her speech or her limping. Amy was tired of it.
Sometimes, even in a classroom full of other students, the
teasing made her feel all alone.
Back home at the dinner table that evening Amy was quiet.
Her mother knew that things were not
going well at school. That's why Patti Hagadorn was
happy to have some exciting news to share with her daughter.
"There's a Christmas Wish Contest on the radio station,"
Amy's mom announced. "Write a letter to Santa and you
might win a prize. I think someone at this table with blond
curly hair should enter."
Amy giggled. The contest sounded
like fun. She started thinking about what she wanted
most for Christmas.
A smile took hold of Amy
when the idea first came to her. Out
came pencil and paper and Amy went to work on her
letter. "Dear Santa Claus," she began.
While Amy worked away at
her best printing, the rest of the family tried to guess
what she might ask from Santa. Amy's sister, Jamie, and
Amy's mom both thought a 3-foot
Barbie Doll would top Amy's wish list.
Amy's dad guessed a picture book. But Amy wasn't ready to
reveal her secret Christmas wish just then. Here is Amy's
letter to Santa, just as she wrote it that night:
Dear Santa Claus,
My name is Amy. I am 9 years old. I have a problem at
school. Can you help me, Santa? Kids laugh at me because
of the way I walk and run and talk. I have cerebral palsy.
I just want one day where no one laughs at me or makes fun
of me.
Love,
Amy
At radio station WJLT in Fort Wayne, Indiana, letters
poured in for the Christmas
Wish Contest. The workers had fun
reading about all the different presents that boys
and
girls from across the city wanted for Christmas.
When Amy's letter arrived at the radio station, manager
Lee Tobin read it carefully. He knew cerebral palsy was
a muscle disorder that might confuse the schoolmates of
Amy who didn't understand her disability. He thought it
would be good for the people in Fort Wayne to hear about
this special third grader and her unusual wish. Mr. Tobin
called up the local newspaper.
The next day, a picture of Amy and her letter to Santa
made the front page of the "News Sentinel." The
story spread quickly. All across the country, newspapers
and radio and television stations reported the story of
the little girl in Fort Wayne, Indiana, who asked for such
a simple, yet remarkable, Christmas gift - just one day
without teasing.
Suddenly the postman was a regular
at the Hagadorn house. Envelopes of all sizes addressed
to Amy arrived daily from children and adults all
across the nation. They came filled with holiday greetings
and words of encouragement.
During that unforgettable Christmas season, over two thousand
people from all over the world sent Amy letters of friendship
and support. Amy and her family read every single one. Some
of the writers had disabilities; some had been teased as
children. Each writer had a special message for Amy. Through
the cards and letters from strangers, Amy
glimpsed a world full of people who truly cared about each
other. She realized that no amount or form of teasing could
ever make her feel lonely again.
Many people thanked Amy for being brave enough to speak
up. Others encouraged her to ignore teasing and to
carry her head high. Lynn,
a sixth grader from Texas, sent this message:
"I would like to be your friend," she wrote,
"and if you want to visit me, we could have fun. No
one would make fun of us, cause, if they do, we will not
even hear them."
Amy did get her wish of a special day without teasing
at South Wayne Elementary School. Additionally, everyone
at school got an added bonus. Teachers and students talked
together about how bad teasing can make others feel.
That year, the Fort Wayne mayor officially proclaimed
December 21st as Amy Jo Hagadorn
Day throughout the city. The mayor explained that by daring
to make such a simple wish, Amy taught
a universal lesson.
"Everyone," said the mayor, "wants and
deserves to be treated with respect, dignity and warmth."
by Alan D. Shultz |